Reader Mail: Gripes with Hoboken PD
02
March
3/2/2008:
I personally thought the Hoboken Police Department did a fine job yesterday maintaining order in the city.
However, one reader has some issues with the priorities they have. What do you think of her story?
Hoboken Police doesn’t care about sober people
“I am a Hoboken resident that did not participate in the parade festivities because I had to work, babysitting for parents so they could go out and drink, while I watched there kids. I was out earlier in the day and had to drive in around 3 pm. In my fury to make it on time, I parked anywhere I could find a parking spot.
Being that I live on Washington Street, I did not expect to find a spot around there. So, the ONLY parking spot I could find was on 12th and Jefferson… which was ridiculous because as I walked towards Washington, I saw more boots and tickets on cars than ever, and knowing that all these out of towners took my spot, I was quite furious.
Anyway, I got done babysitting around 9:30 and as I started to make my way through the drunks and rude crowds I made my way back to Jefferson and 11th, walking from 5th. I was cat-called by intoxicated 20 somethings and scared being a female walking by myself. As I got to where I thought I parked my car, I was surprised and afraid to see it was not where I “thought” I parked it. So I walked around for about 20 minutes looking for my car in the spot I thought it was, and no luck. Finally, I went into the Liberty Deli on Adams and asked if they could give me the non-emergency number for the police dept. hoping that they could send a car and help me because I was extremely frightened walking the streets by myself and actually being SOBER. They did not have the number, so I looked it up on my phone and called.
I was connected with a policewoman that answered the phone. I told her my problem: “I am not intoxicated, I live on Washington Street and had to park my car in the back. I can not remember exactly where I parked it and I do not feel safe walking can you please send a car to help me.” Her response was “So you are intoxicated and your car was stolen? you need to come to the police department and report it” again I informed her of my soberness and that NO my car was not stolen, the streets are not safe for a female to walk alone and I was scared, in the meantime I was crying on the phone with this policewoman.
She then told me it probably got towed. I told her NO i have a resident sticker and I did not park in an illegal space. She then told me it was NOT THE POLICE DEPARTMENTS PRIORITY TO COME AND HELP ME. I then asked her if it was the police departments priority to come and help me when I get attacked and raped by some drunken group of men who can not control their liquor. She then told me, she could not send anyone at this time. THANKS A LOT HOBOKEN POLICE! IT IS FUNNY HOW THEY WILL PROTECT THE DRUNK PEOPLE, BUT THE SOBER PEOPLE ARE NOT THEIR PRIORITY!! In the meantime, one of the nice workers at the Liberty Gourmet Deli on Adams street saw I was upset and told me he would help me and we got in his car and he drove me around till I found my car. I just wanted to say thank you to the man at the deli, and how disappointed I am in the police force and the idiots they have answering the phone there. It is bad enough when you look out your window and see people peeing on the street, but when you call the police department for help, and they tell you they are not your priority, it is frightening.
Thanks for listening, and I truly hope you share this with the community so they can see how the Hoboken Police are not worried about the residents, but the out-of-towners get better treatment then we do. And we still have to pay taxes so they can go party with Hooters girls!
Personally, I think forgetting where you parked is pretty silly, but it wasn’t very professional of the Hoboken Police to treat her in such a way. They could have at least tried to accommodate her in some way, even if it meant waiting till an officer was in the area or freed up from a call.
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61. road | March 2nd, 2008 at 11:29 pm
hahahahaha!!!
62. road | March 2nd, 2008 at 11:31 pm
(re: post 58)
63. tullipsandlillies | March 2nd, 2008 at 11:49 pm
I must say, this is one of the most sillies letters I have seen posted on 411. So, let me get this straight: She couldn’t find her car, she was afraid so, she had a “stranger” from a deli drive her to locate it?? Does this make much sense to anyone?? Welcome to the city honey!! It seems a bit bogus to me if you ask.
64. bornandrazedinhobo | March 3rd, 2008 at 1:41 am
So basically your an idiot who has zero directional skills in a one square mile town and expect the police to come running lights and sirens to help you find your car when 50,000 winos are tearing up the city?
It is NOT the PD’s responsability to aid you find your car because you are too stupid to remember where you parked. How did you get this far in life when you can’t remember where your car is and you were sober?
I bet you parked and talked or texted on your iphone when you “lost track” of your whereabouts. Hopefully the parents you babysat for read this and fire you. You might just lose one of the kids someday.
MORON!
65. NickAdams | March 3rd, 2008 at 8:08 am
Is Hobofromme related to “squeaky” Fromme?
66. hobokentownie | March 3rd, 2008 at 10:48 am
There is no cure for stupid - I suspect that this woman should not have a driver’s license.
I think it is 411’s civic obligation to report this woman to the DMV for retraining and retesting. She probably left out the part where she was talking on her cell phone, listening to the new Spice Girls album and had her toy dog on her lap.
She is a babysitter? God help the parents who hired her, check your children for bruises and check your liquor cabinet.
67. 9 | March 3rd, 2008 at 10:49 am
Hoboken 411 … NOT the place to come for sympathy.
68. plaintruthiness | March 3rd, 2008 at 12:30 pm
I leave town for the weekend and miss H411’s best reader post of the year? Damn. I’d swear H411 personally wrote this post to see the crowd’s wigged-out reaction and increase web hits.
On the chance that the reader is real, the girl needs to go to the funny farm and meet up with the dog-walking reader that posted about those scary guys on the path near Maxwell Place (at least the HPD weren’t called for that one).
69. 9 | March 3rd, 2008 at 12:38 pm
If by “best,” you mean “dumbest,” then you are correct.
70. hobojoe | March 3rd, 2008 at 1:02 pm
But don’t forget, Big Brother, I mean, the city of Hoboken now has a record of where every car in town is parked every single day (see: HPU money van). Maybe she should have called John Corea instead of the HPD.
71. astro | March 3rd, 2008 at 1:14 pm
hobojoe wrote:
You forget - this requires one department to talk to another.
72. hobofromme | March 3rd, 2008 at 9:27 pm
Katie_harlot, no i am not the author of the letter that sparked this thread.
1 I don’t like kids and wouldn’t babysit any of the brats in this town, 2 I don’t have a car.
I’d like to see all the kids that use CSP be forced to pick up all the stray dog shit in and around the park.let them be useful! LOL
73. NickAdams | March 3rd, 2008 at 10:06 pm
Re: # 72 She’s not related to squeaky fromme…..she IS squeaky fromme!
74. hobofromme | March 3rd, 2008 at 10:21 pm
Not even close little boy.
Interesting that you are rushing to insult me. We can’t have a difference of opinion??
Or do you even understand that this board is to explore differences ?
75. billy2008 | March 4th, 2008 at 9:12 am
I sincerely hope that the semi-literate person who wrote this letter was joking around and trying to see how many people she could irritate. If that was not the case, the police should have showed up at the deli on Adams, tied her to their bumper and driven her across the bridge to Weehawken at 40 mph with the strict warning that she will be shot on sight if she ever sets foot in Hoboken again.
76. morien09 | March 9th, 2008 at 5:08 pm
#67 neither understanding.